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- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Oct 16, 2019
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A life lesson from the great James Baldwin, and more
Advice on growing up, giving love a chance, and getting rid of Dad's porn
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jan 3, 2019
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'Please tell me where I can find my porn!'
How Tumblr's ban on NSFW content harms queer and kinky people. Plus: you shouldn't need a "spotter" at a swinger party.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Dec 13, 2018
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How to deal with sex-shaming family members over the holidays
Dan gives advice to a couple on tumblr, a "free sexual woman," and the younger half of an age-gap couple, all dreading upcoming gatherings.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Apr 4, 2018
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Three-ways between friends and anxiety-induced orgasms: Here's why hundreds skipped Stormy Daniels on 60 Minutes
Dan Savage answers questions from a live audience in Michigan the same night as the porn star's interview.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Oct 4, 2017
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Guy: My girlfriend wants to be her roommate’s sex slave—and I like it
Is this bad? Plus: masturbating at work, buddy bating
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Aug 16, 2017
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Are there gay men who occasionally crave pussy?
Uncle Dan considers this and other burning questions from his grab bag.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jun 7, 2017
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'I hate how my boyfriend has sex with me'
What to do. Plus: a “GGG” clarification
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Mar 29, 2017
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Should a hookup who lied about his HIV status get a second chance?
Dan weighs in. Plus: tips for a sexually frustrated young wife and a sexually frustrated young woman
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Oct 13, 2016
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Could this be Savage Love’s biggest jerk ever?
Dan tears a 64-year-old a new one. Plus: more advice for the older set
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Sep 8, 2016
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‘If I find someone who will pay me to suckle my milk, is that prostitution?’
A hard-up single mom inquires. Plus: confidential to Mr. SPOUSE, gay cuckoldry
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jul 28, 2016
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An intersex woman’s dilemma
Is it unethical not to disclose the condition? Plus: a porn/real-life mismatch, fun with butt plugs, and more
- Blogs, Bleader Jul 11, 2016
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Exxxotica Chicago, the ‘comic con of porn,’ is secretly more conservative than a Trump rally
Porn and anime made strange bedfellows at the Donald E. Stephens Convention Center.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Oct 15, 2015
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All you ever wanted to know about 'lady spasms'—and not the good kind
Plus: 'What's wrong with my sexual fantasies?'
- Arts & Culture, Theater Review Jun 17, 2015
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The most unassuming diva on the planet shines in The Beautiful Days of Aranjuez
Melissa Lorraine of Theatre Y gets to be herself in this late play by Peter Handke.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Apr 2, 2015
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My husband the wanker
Another reminder to clear your browser history, guys. Plus: the price of admission, the downside of a thrill
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jan 15, 2015
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When porn is a problem
Coping with insecure partners, cam-cheating spouses, and more
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Sep 11, 2014
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Uncle Dan's grab bag
Bad news for the premature ejaculator, good news for the cuckolding novice, what gives with that "little brown prince," and more
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Sep 4, 2014
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What to do when a spouse equates porn with pedophilia
Plus: bondage with a baby on board, marriage sans sex for 11 years and counting
- News & Politics, Zoom in Oct 26, 2013
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Zoom in: Near North
As the Near North Side blossoms with swanky hotels and tourist-focused restaurants, a few of the neighborhood's sex stores are intent on hanging around.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Oct 24, 2013
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It puts the lotion on its skin
And it gets the cold shoulder again, anyway. Plus: an unstable ex and a porn-jealous girlfriend.
- Arts & Culture, Feature Jul 31, 2013
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A portrait of the artists (OK, that might be a stretch) as 18-year-old porno directors
What started as a joke between two college students has led to a casting call, an awkward audition, and several hours of (so far) PG-rated footage. How far will they take it?
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jul 25, 2013
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Should I marry my roughhousing, possibly asexual, crap-in-bed true love?
More no-brainers from the inbox. Plus: another word of advice for FURFAG.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jul 4, 2013
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Adult entertainment
How to date porn stars, current and former. Plus: Postbreakup libidos and newlywed threesomes.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jun 20, 2013
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Porn = incesticide?
Does smut encourage inappropriate urges or does it divert them? Plus: A gay man's mommy dearest.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love May 23, 2013
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Dressed to the nines for wife number two
Plus: Should I seek closure for an old violation?