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Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jul 27, 2020
How to propose casual pandemic sex with a coworker

Work relationships don’t always end in tears and pink slips and lawsuits.
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, Pandemic, coronavirus, COVID-19, sex, lesbian

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jul 7, 2020
Just another cuckin’ monogamous couple

It’s possible to enjoy lesbian cuckolding fantasies and not open a relationship.
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, cuckolding, fantasy, monogamy, lesbian

Arts & Culture, Theater Review Oct 11, 2018
Recommended
The passion is in the music in Patience and Sarah

Third Eye Ensemble tells the incredibly true adventure of two early American girls in love.
- By Albert Williams
- Tags: Theater Review, Patience and Sarah, Third Eye Theatre Ensemble, Theater Wit, Alma Routsong, Isabel Miller, Paula M. Kimper, Wende Persons, Lincoln Center, Connecticut, pioneer, lesbian, Diana Stoic, Liana Gineitis, Alexandra Enyart, Recommended

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love May 23, 2018
What to do when someone horns in on all the action at the orgy

Even if it’s the host. Plus: threesome success and lesbian special guests!
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, Dan Savage, Savage Love, water sports, piss party, golden shower, orgy, group sex, piss play, etiquette, threesome, MMF threesome, use your words, special guest star, cis, lesbian, bisexual, queer, sexual identity, bad lesbian

News & Politics, Politics Nov 29, 2016
This lawsuit could have major impact on LGBTQ employment protections

A federal appeals court revisits the suit of an Indiana teacher who says she was fired for being gay.
- By Robin Amer
- Tags: Politics, Kim Hively, Ivy Tech Community College of Indiana, Greg Nevins, Lambda Legal, LGBTQ, gay, lesbian, transgender, employment, Title VII, 1964 Civil Rights Act, discrimination, Donald Trump, Antonin Scalia, William Pryor

Columns & Opinion, Identity & Culture Sep 21, 2016
Performance artist to Chicago: Get off our areolas

Bea Cordelia thinks the city’s liquor-license law has a gender-bias problem.
- By Derrick Clifton
- Tags: Identity & Culture, #FreeTheNipple, Bea Cordelia, Bea Sullivan-Knoff, art, poetry, spoken word, gender, gender identity, trans, transgender, sexism, misogyny, transphobia, women, cisgender, cisgender women, gay, lesbian, bi, LGBT, nipple, nudity, aereolas, performance art, live performance, bars, venues, nightlife

Columns & Opinion, Identity & Culture Aug 16, 2016
Illinois pastors don’t deserve exemption from conversion therapy ban

Conversion therapy aimed at “curing” queer kids is harmful, fraudulent, and discredited, no matter who’s practicing it.
- By Derrick Clifton
- Tags: Identity & Culture, LGBT, lesbian, gay, bisexual, queer, conversion therapy, reparative therapy, mental health, Youth Mental Health Protection Act, religion, sexuality, faith, sexual orientation, Pastors Protecting Youth, Kelly Cassidy, Faith in America, Equality Illinois, Movement Advancement Project, World Psychiatric Association, American Academy of Pediatrics, American Psychiatric Association, American Medical Association, National Association of Social Workers

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love May 8, 2014
Boundary disputes

Plus: Getting off without getting on top, and being open to your hubby in panties (come on, it's his birthday).
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, lesbian, break-up, sex buddies, friends with benefits, NSA, one-night stand, orgasms, fake orgasms, long distance relationship, transgender, cisgender, fetish, vanilla sex, Emily "Dear Prudence" Yoffe

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Nov 21, 2013
Hearts on fire (upper torsos too)

Plus: Are divergent libidos grounds to end a relationship?
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, sex, virgin, libido, penetration, house party, volcano shots, burns, blindfold, leather, cuckolding, kinks, lesbian, bisexual, threesome

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Nov 14, 2013
Slut autoshaming

Plus: A misplaced cock ring reappears and an online lesbian impersonator reevaluates.
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, slut, sexism, slut shaming, sex positive, cock ring, lube, Omegle, Reddit, lesbian, cisgender, drag

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Sep 19, 2013
Greasy hipster noise sex

What to do about neighbors who won't keep it down. Plus: Do you need to disclose that blow job?
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, lesbian, noise pollution, hipster mustache, Robert Lopez, Jeff Marx, Jeff Whitty, Avenue Q, Tony Award, monogamous relationship, sex, creative writing, closeted gay men, Craigslist, nonmonogamous gay couples, Jeffrey Dahmer

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Sep 5, 2013
Savage Love takes all comers

A quick Q&A to address various of your . . . needs
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, threesome, bondage, friend with benefits, orgasm, foot fetish, cross-dressing, lesbian, bi, straight

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Aug 15, 2013
A little help from Dan's friends

Advice this week—on rough fantasies and shitty relationships—comes from author Daniel Bergner and blogger-activist Chris Savage.
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, Savage Love Letter of the Day, the Stranger, Daniel Bergner, What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire, Salon, lesbian, Craigslist, rape, divorce, stalking fantasy, therapy, eros, masturbation, Chris Savage, Michigan, Rachel Maddow, Michigan Democratic Party, manipulative girlfriend

Arts & Culture, Performing Arts Review May 23, 2012
Adolescence without the sexy vampires

Rivendell's Crooked looks straight into the hearts of teenage girls
- By Kerry Reid
- Tags: Performing Arts Review, Rivendell Theatre, Sandy Shinner, vampires, Catherine Trieschmann, dystonia, atheism, Martin McDonaugh, lesbian, grief, guilt, sublimation, the South, teenage girls

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Dec 1, 2011
Do I have to call myself a lesbian?

Plus: barf as a turn on, hyperhorny boyfriend, grateful Christian conservative kinkster
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, lesbian, gay, GGG, ball bursting

Music, The Secret History of Chicago Music Sep 22, 2011
The Secret History of Chicago Music: Ginni Clemmens

"Gentle Radical" Ginni Clemmens
- Tags: The Secret History of Chicago Music, Ginni Clemmens, queer, lesbian, Mother Blues, Bob Dylan, Sing a Rainbow, The Secret History of Chicago Music

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Feb 17, 2011
Savage Love: February 17, 2011

Can cheating save a marriage? How to talk to a shy partner. And, what to do when your "straight" buddy is confused?
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, Dan Savage, Savage Love, Marriage, advice, gay, lesbian

Blogs, Bleader Dec 21, 2009
“No Lesbo”: Girls, “No Homo,” and Lesbians In Hip-Hop

Hip-hop's "no homo" disclaimer, when extended to women, leads to more misogyny.
- By Amanda Hess
- Tags: LGBT, gay, lesbian, hip-hop, no homo, no lesbo

Blogs, Bleader Aug 4, 2009
Video
The right to say goodbye
- By Ed M. Koziarski
- Tags: LGBT, Film, Hannah Free, lesbian, Frameline, San Francisco. LGBT, Sharon Gless, Wendy Jo Carlton, Tracy Baim, Windy City Times, Claudia Allen, Bailiwick Repertory, Theatre Building, Sharon Zurek, Melissa Thronley, Women in Film Chicago, Midwest Independent Film Festival, Landmark's Century Centre, Forno Diablo, Cagney and Lacey, Queer as Folk, Video

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Work relationships don’t always end in tears and pink slips and lawsuits.

It’s possible to enjoy lesbian cuckolding fantasies and not open a relationship.

Third Eye Ensemble tells the incredibly true adventure of two early American girls in love.

Even if it’s the host. Plus: threesome success and lesbian special guests!

A federal appeals court revisits the suit of an Indiana teacher who says she was fired for being gay.

Bea Cordelia thinks the city’s liquor-license law has a gender-bias problem.

Conversion therapy aimed at “curing” queer kids is harmful, fraudulent, and discredited, no matter who’s practicing it.

Plus: Getting off without getting on top, and being open to your hubby in panties (come on, it's his birthday).

Plus: Are divergent libidos grounds to end a relationship?

Plus: A misplaced cock ring reappears and an online lesbian impersonator reevaluates.

What to do about neighbors who won't keep it down. Plus: Do you need to disclose that blow job?

A quick Q&A to address various of your . . . needs

Advice this week—on rough fantasies and shitty relationships—comes from author Daniel Bergner and blogger-activist Chris Savage.

Rivendell's Crooked looks straight into the hearts of teenage girls

Plus: barf as a turn on, hyperhorny boyfriend, grateful Christian conservative kinkster

"Gentle Radical" Ginni Clemmens

Can cheating save a marriage? How to talk to a shy partner. And, what to do when your "straight" buddy is confused?

Hip-hop's "no homo" disclaimer, when extended to women, leads to more misogyny.

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